Why I've Never Dated

I’ve never dated anyone. Never been on a dating site. 
My experiences in the early stages of romance and relationships have always been intense,...

Be a Man with a Plan

“Be ready at 8. I’ll pick you up. Wear a cocktail dress.”
Is music to a woman’s ears. 
And her vagina.
IT NEVER GETS OLD. 
Be...

"My Dick Grew So Big!"

9 Qualities of a Modern Alpha Male

I’ve forever been a champion and aficionado of the re-emergence and love of all things holy, fuckable and wild: 
The alpha male. 
There’s...

Softcock to Supercock

Forgettable to formidable—how a once underwhelming 🍆 became a bedroom and life force majeure.
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The cock is the ultimate barometer of th...

10 Steps to Sexual Mastery for Men

These are the essential skills that every man needs to be a well-f**ked man, and to create a well-f**ked woman. 


The good news? Th...

Wealthy and Well-F**ked

My vagina makes money. 


In this episode: 
Everything you need to master your sexual healing, self-expression and yoni cash m...

Honesty: the New Lube

“An increase in wetness to tsunami proportions.” ~ Joanne
“Now all I have to do is talk to him on the phone and I’m dripping to my knees.” ~ 61-...

Yo, Libido! Wherefore art Thou?

Every woman has a high libido. Every woman—once sensually switched on—is an endless well of insatiable desire and pleasure. 

I guarantee...

Vixen in the Boardroom

How do you actually achieve things while you’re in your feminine energy? How do you especially do this in a situation, like a job or workplace that is...

5 Steps to Remove Painful Periods

For many women, their periods are agonizing experiences. 


For a week out of every month—and longer for some women—they suffer excr...

50, F**kable and UnF**kwithable

A new epoch is upon us. There are f**kable 50 year olds on TV and in movies. 
From some big-name actresses to some online “influencers” there is...

I'm so F**king Hot for Myself!

“I can’t wait to come home and… fuck myself!” 

 “I daydream all day about fucking…myself!” 


“I’m counting the minutes...

Why I Love to Be F**ked Soft

I’ve connected as deeply with my partners in a wild, intense, thrash of an encounter as we have in hours-long micro-movements. 


Sl...

Why I Love to Be F**ked Hard

Sometimes—oftentimes—I need to get really pounded. 


I need to get thrust all over the bed, I need to be grabbing sheets and bed fr...

5 Ways to Become a Multi-Orgasmic Couple

Coming together: the holy grail of being sexually in sync for a couple. 
It’s easy when both of you are having dozens of orgasms in a session. <...

Cock Cured My Depression

Cock is medicine. Sex is medicine.
But not just any cock or any sex. We’re talking high-caliber, high-performing cocks full of love. Well-occupi...

21st Century Tantra

Sometimes people ask me if I can recommend a Tantra teacher. 
I tell them I am one. I’ve been studying and practicing Tantra for over 30 years. ...

"No walls, and ready for my husband anytime!”

The ultimate goal in a well-f**ked couple is to be open to each other all the time. Always humming with erotic energy. 


Knowing lo...

How to Transmute Sexual Energy as a Couple

Through my work, I’ve seen people self-heal everything from fibroids, cysts and endometriosis, to erectile issues to difficult periods and menopause a...

5 Phrases to Open and Turn Her On—Instantly!

What happens when you say the magic words? The ones that open hearts and legs? 


Your whole world and woman change. 
She tran...

How to Invite Your Partner into Anami Land

So you’ve discovered Anami Land! And now you want your partner to as well. 


How do you get them onboard to create your most epic s...

Is Your Vibrator Cockblocking Your Sex Life?

Are you into group sex? Are you having regular threesomes? Is your girlfriend involved in a secret relationship you just can’t compete with? You may b...

My Yoni Manifested a Man

I often use the phrase #poweredbyvagina to describe how I have created my life and manifested my desired reality. From my vagina!


...

From Painful Sex to Squirting + F**king All Over the House

From never having touched her own vagina and having it feel like "shards of glass" when she tried, to leaving pee pads in every room so she and her hu...

Single Clitaholic to Cervical Orgasm Superstar

The cervix is where Lucia—and many other women, including me—have found God. 
God doesn’t hang out in the clitoris. Nah. The clitoris is for gir...

My Vagina Heals Everything

Your pro-creative sexual energy and your orgasms are the key to shaping your world. In Anami Land, we’re all about CONSCIOUSLY using this energy to gr...

HRT: Should You Take It?

This is a question I get asked ALL THE TIME. 


In the allopathic world, the dominant narrative is that women MUST be hormonally med...

Vag Infections Begone! From Chronic to Atomic.

One of the most common recurring ailments for women in the reproductive realm is yeast infections, BV or bacterial vaginosis and UTIs—urinary tract in...

Strong Vagina = Better Orgasms and No Incontinence

What am I most famous for? 
Lifting a surfboard at Venice Beach, a chandelier in Piazza san Marco in Venice and a piece of the Berlin Wall. At t...

10 Biggest Sex Scams

In my work as a sexologist and a holistic sex and relationship coach—indeed, as the pioneer of the genre—I’m always coming across serious myths and mi...

Why I Love Period Sex

I’ve had some of the best sex of my life during my period. What makes this psychedelic portal so sexy and sacred to share with a partner? 
In th...

No Nut November: Blue Balls or Ballistic?

No Nut November: A worthy pursuit? 
We discuss: 
If you want to dive deeper into the whole Orgasm without Ejaculation topic, also check th...

Reproductive Rights on the Line?

Who's yo daddy?? 
“Oh no! Some old men won’t let me use my uterus the way I want to!” 
Every few years, this issue becomes a hot topic, an...

F**k the Pain Away

Sex can be used as an escape, to make you UNconscious. 
 
Or, it can be used to bring you MORE conscious and elevate you and every part of...

30 Years and the Sex Is Hotter than Ever

One of the biggest sex and relationship myths out there is the notion that lifelong sex is an impossibility. 
In today’s episode, I’m speaking t...

The Pussy Whisperer

What Is a Pussy Whisperer? 
A man who knows his way around a woman and a pussy.  He coaxes that pussy into openness and orgasms. 

I...

Semen Retention: What's All the Fuss?

No, men, I am NOT coming for your orgasm. In fact, I want you to have better, bigger, wilder orgasms that get you high. 
And also: 
You in...

The Real Reason Your Woman Won't Have Sex With You

There are a LOT of potential reasons—plural!—why your woman doesn’t want to have sex with you. 


Contrary to popular social program...

"My Cock Doubled in Size!"

What happens when you inhabit your masculine strength and power? You also inhabit your cock. 
Because you know—what you focus on grows. 
A...