"Girl, I didnt Know Either."
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"Girl, I didnt Know Either."
Zizipho Mqulo is a woman in her 20s, whose sharing the lessons learnt through navigating life. This includes the ups, downs and the 'somewhere in - betweens' she's lived through.
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Seasonal Depression, Transitional Periods and How I'm Dealing w/ Both.
Have you noticed that you get sadder during the winter/summer? Same. I recently found out about S.A.D, seasonal affective disorder. It's about how the...
'Killing The Ego', Ridding Myself Superiority Complexes and Keeping a level - head.
No more 'niggas is my sons'. The basis upon which I've rated people was all superficial. Alot of unimportant things either qualified or disqualified p...
My Very Imperfect Walk w/ God. Exercising Humility and Zeroing In On What Matters To Me.
Phew! Won't He do it? Yes, He will! I love me some Jesus. The entirety of this year has been a consistent testament of His LOVE and PROVIDENCE for us.
Good Men Do Exist. Your 'Type' Might Be The Problem.
We're quick to paint all men with the same 'n*ggas ain't sh*t' but maaaaaybe you're choosing the same man in a different body? We need to let go of th...
The Importance of Celebrating Our Current Selves. Your Greatness Lies In The NOW.
First and foremost I'd like to apologize for how much I hogged the mic during the recording of this episode. My attachment issues were at it again. In...
Building New Patterns of Thinking and Existing, Setting the Tone and Ridding Myself of Hypocrisy etc
Instilling new ways of existing and showing up in the world isn't easy but it has to be done. In this episode I call myself out some more but talk abo...
Coming To Terms w/ My Own Toxicity and It's Effects On My Relationships. How Projection, Past Trauma
I've been conducting myself like a 12 year old in a 22 year old's body. The reason although plausible, is also disempowering. Yes, I've experienced pa...
Talking About How Our Habits Stand In Our Way & Being Unapologetic About Growth.
Welcome to season 2! I know I'm not the only one whose actions have been in contradiction with what they say. I know we're all familiar with new year'...
Chatting About Realizing That My Success Isn't Contingent On People's Support. (SEASON 1 FINALE)
For the longest time I was met with great disappointment because of who I thought I could expect support from because more times than not those people...
Discussing Being Seen As Too Much Or Confrontational, My Experiences w/ Insecure Men & More!
In this episode I speak about my experiences with insecure men who've made me feel like I was too much and like I had to 'dumb myself down' for their...
Navigating Imposter Syndrome and Self - Doubt.
Not by might, not by power but by HIS spirit. We've all heard that before I'm sure. It wasn't till an overwhelming amount of imposter syndrome that I...
My Experiences w/ Financial Struggle and The Pressure to Succeed as Someone Coming From Poverty
Today I talk about some of what I've experienced because of being born into financial hardship. In addition addition this I talk about how badly I wan...
Making Peace w/ The Loss of Relationshps, Identity And The Discomfort That Comes With It.
In this episode I talk about the end of relationships and the falling apart of an identity I had built up and believed for a long time. I go deeper wi...
Feigned Perfection, Stepping Into My Vastness and Biggin' You and I up.
In this episode I talk about my struggle with wanting to showing up as perfect. Being done with that, realizing that my unorthodox nature, speaking hi...
Daddy Issues, Self - Worth Struggles, Toxic Relationships and Sexualization.
In this episode I talk about how foreign the concept of being loved by a man became after my dad told me he basically wanted nothing to do with me. Th...
The Importance of Choosing Yourself & The Vulnerability and Honesty Needed.
In this episode I delve deep into the nitty and gritty that goes into choosing oursleves and the level of vulnerability necessary for it to happen.
Graduation 'Woes', Knowing Who I Am & What I want. Not Giving Into Social Pressures & Being Creative
I talk about not caring about graduating and social expectation. Knowing what and who I am.
Depression is Killing Us.
Speaking on the importance of trying all that we can to not only destigmatize depression and suicide but to end it as well. Expressing my grievances.
Being single on valentines day and 6 things Ive learnt while being single.
Guess, we're both single this Valentine's Day. But don't fret, here are a few things that Ive learnt through singleness. Hopefully, they encourage you...
Q&A: All things body image, sex, childhood, insecurities and more! Pt. 1
Part 2 of the Q and A.
Q&A: All things body image, sex, childhood, insecurities and more! Pt. 1
Just getting to know your girl!
Be Your Own Center
We all know the saying; 'it takes a village to raise a child.' And its true but only to an extent, because there's usually only one or two people doin...
Life's Better In The Grey
Lets be honest, everything in life comes with a level of complexity. But in efforts to put to bed situations, feelings and relationships we cling onto...
Feelings Demand To Be Felt.
Indeed, the only way out is through. For as long as I can remember Ive exerted loads of energy dodging what comes with feeling sadness or anything rem...