Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups
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Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups
A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 35 years experience working with people surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation. A.J. also works with peopl...
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Borderline Induced Conversations - When Talking Turns Into Trauma for Codependents
Borderline Induced Conversations - When Talking Turns Into Trauma for Codependents
When you try to talk to someone with Borderline Person...
Borderline Love a Looping Trap of Deception
Borderline Love a Looping Trap of Deception
Borderline Love is a looping trap of deception rooted in fantasy, betrayal, false hope, and t...
The Invisible Borderline Man Why Women Don't See Him Coming
The Invisible Borderline Man - Why Women Don't See Him Coming
The invisible Borderline man. Why is he so invisible? Are men diagnosed pro...
Borderline Man Unmasked
Borderline man unmasked
The Borderline Man Unmasked. Yes, men have BPD too! It is important that women learn more about the many ways the...
The Broken BPD Man Fantasy
The Broken BPD Man Fantasy
The Broken BPD Man Fantasy is very real for women. Yes, men have Borderline Personality Disorder too! Countles...
BPD Love Legacy of Doubt 5 Reasons Why Closure is An Illusion
BPD Love Legacy of Doubt 5 Reasons Closure is An Illusion]
BPD Love leaves a legacy of doubt. There are 5 main reasons why closure is an...
Quiet BPD 10 Reasons Why It Dsstroys Relationships
Quiet BPD 10 Reasons It Destroys Relationships
Quiet BPD 10 reasons it destroys relationships. Often people in a relationship with someon...
10 Ways BPD Relationship Recycling Increases Your Suffering
10 Ways BPD Relationship Recycling Increases Your Suffering
10 ways that BPD relationship recycling actually strengthens your suffering a...
BPD Love is a Reverse Fairytale
BPD Love is a Reverse FairyTale
What starts like a pseudo BPD relationships fairytale in reverse ends in emotional devastation—and you’re left w...
Enmeshed in a BPD Relatioship? 5 Codependent Hooks Fueling Cycles
Enmeshed in a BPD Relationship? 5 Codependent Hooks Fueling Cycles
Are you enmeshed in a BPD relationship? Why can’t you let go—even when...
BPD Frustration Intolerance
BPD Frustration Intolerance
BPD Frustration Intolerance explains one of the most confusing, crazy-making, and painful dynamics loved ones...
7 Reasons Why BPD Relationships Fail
7 Reasons Why BPD Relationships Fail
Why do relationships with someone who has untreated Borderline Personality Disorder so often end in...
BPD Mirror Holds No Internal Reflection You are Unseen
BPD Mirror Holds No Internal Reflection: You are *Unseen*
If you’ve ever loved someone with untreated Borderline Personality Disorder (B...
The BPD Love Paradox
The BPD Love Paradox
Why does someone with Borderline Personality Disorder crave deep love—only to sabotage and destroy it when it arrive...
The BPD Fantasy Why Codependents Feel Stuck
The BPD Fantasy Why Codependents Are Stuck
(From My Codependency Inside Out Surviving Cluster B Podcast)
The BPD Fantasy of...
BPD Fragmented Self Blocks Connection and Communication
BPD Fragmented Self Blocks Connection and Communication
BPD fragmented self blocks connection and communication. I dive deeply into the c...
BPD Triggers Explained
BPD Triggers Explained
BPD Triggers Explained. What do you still need to understand or understand more about people with Borderline Perso...
Is Codependency Really An Addiction?
Is Codependency Really an Addiction?
From my Codependency Surviving Cluster B Relationships Podcast
An often asked, and I th...
BPD Ego Syntonic vs Ego Dystonic & BPD Alloplastic Defenses
BPD Ego Syntonic vs Ego Dystonic & BPD Alloplastic Defenses
In BPD people with (especially) untreated BPD have ego syntonic alloplastic d...
Borderline Persecutory Object Invisible Partners and Exes
Borderline Persecutory Object - Invisible Partners and Exes
Borderline persecutory object, a psychoanalytic concept, within Objects Relat...
BPD Misinformation Hurts Borderlines and Codependents
BPD Misinformation Hurts Borderlines and Codependents
BPD misinformation hurts people with Borderline Personality and it hurts Codependen...
BPD “Remission” Flawed and False Hope
BPD “Remission” Flawed & False Hope
BPD remission is very difficult to define or describe or even rely on apart from a very not helpful b...
Excusing BPD Behavior is Codependent Externalization
Excusing BPD Behavior is Codependent Externalization
Excusing BPD behavior is what so many people with Codependency do and it is a functi...
BPD Sudden Shocking Discard Ex is Alone Now What Can You Do?
BPD Sudden Shocking Discard BPD Ex is All Alone Now What Can You Do?
BPD sudden shocking discard is devastating and leaves many an Ex of...
Wanting to Make Amends to a BPD Ex is Codependent
Wanting to Make Amends to a BPD Ex is Codependent
BPD Ex wanting to make amends to Borderline is codependent. Whether you are struggling...
Does Going No Contact Make Your BPD Ex Think About You?
Does Going No Contact Make Your BPD Ex Think About You?
Does going no contact after a BPD breakup, ghosting, or discard, make your Ex wit...
BPD Abuse Called Out is Denied Deflected BPD Lying
BPD Abuse Called Out is Denied Deflected BPD Lying
When people with BPD (usually untreated) are called out their abusive behaviour, words...
Wanting a BPD Ex Back The Fantasy Bond & Unanswered Questions
Want a BPD Ex Back? Fantasy Bond & Unanswered Questions
Want a BPD Ex back? It's the fantasy bond and wanting answers to unanswered quest...
Unknowingly Loving a Borderline Suddenly Ghosted
Unknowingly Loving a Borderline Suddenly Ghosted
Unknowingly loving a Borderline and suddenly ghosted? Wondering what on earth just happe...
BPD On/Off Relationship Can You Change To Make It Work?
BPD On/Off Relationship Can You Change To Make It Work?
In a BPD on/off relationship? Are you wondering, can I change, like heal some Cod...
BPD Disconnectedness and Inability To Relate
Borderline Disconnectedness and Inability To Relate
As a BPD survivor, I recovered almost 40 years ago, I explain the deep and extremely...
Want BPD Ex Back and Holding Out Hope?
Want BPD Ex Back Holding Out Hope?
Are you holding out hope that you can get your BPD Ex back? Like so many people, most with Codependenc...
BPD Emotional Arrested Development & Object Other Relating
BPD Arrested Emotional Development and Object Other Relating
BPD arrested emotional development and Object Other Relating. For more peopl...
Lost Yourself To A Borderline?
Lost Yourself To A Borderline?
Have you lost yourself to Borderline? A partner, Ex partner, girlfriend or boyfriend, or person close to y...
BPD Idealization Phase Causes Fantasy Bonding
BPD Idealization Phase Causes Fantasy Bonding
BPD idealization in the beginning of a significant other relationship
creates a fantasy bond...
Borderline Betrayal Its Insidious Impact on You
Borderline Betrayal and Its Insidious Impact on You
Borderline betrayal and its negative, painful impact on you.
Anyone close to an...
BPD Awareness Can't Save Relationships
BPD Awareness Can't Save Relationships
BPD awareness can't save relationships and doesn't mean changed behaviour (spelling Canadian now :...
BPD Stable Before Relationship Rupture? Was My Ex Like Sherri Papini?
BPD Stable Before Relationship Rupture? Was My Ex Like Sherri Papini?
A commenter asks how could my BPD Ex be fine in a relationship for...
Borderlines Are Not Relationship Worthy
Borderlines Are Not Relationship Worthy
Borderlines are not relationship worthy. They lack a self, have no object constancy and have rela...
BPD Breakup Ghost or Discard Is Not Your Fault
BPD Breakup Ghost or Discard Is Not Your Fault
BPD breakup, ghosting, or discard is not your fault. People with suspected BPD, diagnosed...