To Be Single or Not to Be
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To Be Single or Not to Be
A podcast where we discuss navigating life with or without a partner and the cause and effects that come along with it. Are either all they’re really cracked up to be? Each episode will leave you with new info to decide if you’re to be single or not to be… that is the final question!
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STATE OF THE UNION ADDRESS: THE STATE OF RELATIONSHIPS IN 2024
In this special and final episode of the Runnin' it Back Series, we take a deep dive into the state of relationships in 2024. It's a real, raw, and VE...

Do You Even Know Who Raised That Man?
On this episode we take a deep dive into the role that family plays in your dating life when you think it does not! It's essential for you to ask your...

Market Value is More Than a Pretty Face & Finances
On this episode we take a deep dive into the conversations around market value so we can lay it to rest! Market value is more than skin and pockets de...

Don't Commit to Your Next Relationship Before Reviewing This List!
On this episode we take a deep dive into the areas you need to make sure you fully tap into before you decide to commit to a new relationship! These a...

Stop Playing With Your Friendships!
On this episode we take a deep dive into what friendship really means and looks like in the digital age of premature dismissals. If they are really yo...

Is She Too Independent or Is That Man Not Doing Enough?
On this episode we revisit my views on what it really means to be independent and is there a such thing as too independent in a society that say women...

They Cheated. Do I Stay or Pay Them Dust?
On this episode we revisit my views on cheating, how you define what cheating is to you personally, the hand social media plays in cheating present da...

That Man Does Not Need More Time. That Man Does Not Like You
On this episode we revisit my views on timelines in relationships and dating and why they are not as necessary as I once thought. It's more so about w...

How to End Generational Curses Immediately!
On this episode we revisit my views and the truth about GENERATIONAL CURSES! They are more than only building financial wealth. There are actually FEE...

The Hard Truth About Breakups...NOW WHAT?
On this episode we revisit my views the HARD truth about breakups, why they happen, what you can possibly do to prevent them, and how to navigate them...

Stop Negotiating Your NON-Negotiables!
On this episode we revisit my views on non-negotiables because it's time for us to discuss WHY do we even have them if we are not going to ever stick...

Why Would a Woman Go Half on Anything With a Man?
On this episode we revisit my views on the financial perspective of a relationship! Should women go half, should they never consider it, or is it stil...

Why Women Really Want a Husband!
On this episode we revisit my views on why women really want a husband! Is it for love, is it for money, or is it for reasons that have nothing to do...

One Night Only: The Tell All Interview with Shaanah Montanna - Ep. 111
This is the season finale of the To Be Single or Not To Be podcast and we are so excited to be here! This episode is exclusively on YouTube and is one...

Let's Talk About Labels...AGAIN! - Ep. 110
On this episode, we take another dive into a conversation around labels and the necessity of them since it seems many people are unclear about this sa...

The Value of Sisterhood - Ep. 109
On this episode, we take a deep dive into the sometimes overlooked value of sisterhood! In this day and age of social media relationship goals, women...

Non Monogamy & Polyamorous Relationships - Ep. 108
On this episode, we take a deep dive into what non monogamous and polyamorous relationships truly look like, inside and out! Many people will say thos...

Relationship Accountability: What Does it Really Mean - Ep. 107
On this episode we take a deep dive into the feared and almighty meaning of the word, "ACCOUNTABILITY"! It is wild how one word has so much power; yet...

Relationship Gridlock - We Are Stuck and Want to Move Forward - Ep. 106
On this episode, we take a dive into the sometimes harsh reality that relationship gridlock happens. However, it's all about what you do after that! R...

Breaking Toxic Relationship Cycles - Ep. 105
On this episode, we take a deep dive into what breaking a toxic relationships looks like! In the world of Futures and Kevin Samuels #RIP, we have to d...

Are Men Healing and Caring For Themselves at the Same Rate as Women? Ep. 104
On this episode we take a deep dive into a necessary conversation around the facts of the matter when it comes to women and men healing and taking car...

The Importance of Therapy While Dating - Ep. 103
On this episode, we take a deep dive into the GREAT importance of getting into therapy while you are dating! For many years, the only time we would he...

Part 3: SMBC - Single Mom By Choice - Ep. 102
On this episode, we take a deep and interesting dive into what may be an unknown or new acronym and lifestyle that is making waves through society tha...

Part 2: Black Maternal Health in America: Are We in a Crisis?
On this episode, we continue the conversation around Black maternal health in America and how we overcome this crisis!
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Part 1: Black Maternal Health in America: Are We in a Crisis? Ep. 101
On this episode, we take a deep and very necessary dive into the state of Black maternal health in America to uncover why we are in a crisis, how we h...

The Great Debate: Men vs. Women - Ep. 100
On this episode, we have an entertaining, upbeat, and insightful conversation around who is more responsible for the issues we see in relationships! F...

Suffering is Not a Requirement for Love - Ep. 99
On this episode we take a deep dive into the true meaning of self love to help listeners understand that suffering is not a pre-requisite to gain the...

What About Yo Friends? Let's Talk Friendship! - Ep. 98
On this episode we take a deep dive into one of the relationship types that I highly value and that would be FRIENDSHIPS! In this sometimes toxic cult...

Kim vs. Kanye - Bonus Tea
Listen in as myself and special guests pregame before a recording session with some interesting tea and thoughts on Kim & Kanye! This may not age well...

Create Your Own Love Language - Ep. 97
On today's episode, we dive into love languages deeper than you ever have before! Love languages are all about showing up and loving your partner the...

Detachment: How to Detach & Dealing With a Detached Person - Ep. 96
On this episode we take a deep dive into detachment into all aspects and how to deal with it! Detachment can be a dangerous game if not played properl...

Long Term Relationships - You Will Change & So Will Your Partner - Ep. 95
On this episode, we take a deep dive into making long term relationships last forever! Alexa, play Keith Sweat. We dive into understanding what good (...

Leaving Will Hurt & You Will Be Okay! Leaving is NOT Losing! - Ep. 94
On this episode we take a deep dive into knowing when it is time to go, understanding the process to arrive at and stand by the decision, and understa...

Where the Cash At? Is it Pay for Play in 2022? - Ep. 93
On this episode we take a deep and FUN dive into what money and relationships looks like present day because we want to know is it pay for play in 202...

Why Do We Keep Taking Them Back? - Ep. 92
On this episode, we take a deep dive into why we continue to take people back, repeatedly, in relationships when they have shown us they are no longer...

You Cannot Love Them Into the Person You Are Envisioning - Ep. 91
On this episode, we take a deep dive into why we envision people to be someone that they have proven they cannot be in their relationship with us and...

Fantasy vs. Reality of Love - Ep. 90
On this episode, we take a deep dive into the fantasy of love verses the reality of it. Are we creating our own illusions of love or are they being pa...

Imposter Syndrome - Ep. 89
On this episode we take a deep dive into what imposter syndrome really looks like, how it shows up in our lives, how we understand it, and how we navi...

Relationship Attachment Styles - Ep. 88
On this episode we take a deep dive into what may be new territory for some and that is relationship attachment styles! Many times, they way we move i...

Comparison is the Thief of All Joy - Ep. 87
On this episode we take a deep dive into what truly creating the relationship you desire looks like without allowing the outside world to have a say s...