Java with Juli - Conversations About God, Sex, & You
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Java with Juli - Conversations About God, Sex, & You
Dr. Juli Slattery sits down with guests over coffee and you get to join them. We have honest conversations about sex, marriage, intimacy, singleness, and God’s design for sexuality. Java with Juli is an outreach of Authentic Intimacy.
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When You Want Sex but Your Spouse Doesn't, #294
Ever feel like you're the only one in your marriage who wants to have sex?
In most marriages, there is typically one partner with a higher sex...
Real Stories of Women in the Bible (Have We Been Reading Them Wrong?), #583
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In this episode, we uncover the real stories of women in the Bible who have...
Candid Answers to Questions About Sex & Being Single, #338
Instead of shutting it down, what if you could meet your needs for touch, intimacy, and opposite-sex friendships in ways that honor your sexuality? (S...
Surviving the Unthinkable: Rebuilding My Life After Trauma and Loss, #582
In this episode, author Kimberly Haar opens up about surviving a violent abduction and assault at the hands of her ex-husband. With unflinching honest...
Raising Wise Kids in a Sexually Broken World, #581
Are you teaching your kids to follow Jesus—or to just follow the rules?
In this episode, Juli sits down with Matt & Laurie Krieg to talk about h...
How To Talk to Your Husband (When All You Want To Do Is Yell at Him), #580
How do you speak life to your husband when all you want to do is yell at him?
Juli sits down for a candid conversation with author Ann Wilson a...
Sex Therapy: What Is It, and Why Should You Go?, #324
If you struggle with low desire, pain during sex, or difficulty with orgasm and don’t know where to go for help, this week’s Java with Juli is for you...
Why Telling Your Story is Complex, Courageous and Healing, #353
The power of abuse lies in secrecy. The power of healing begins with telling.
In this episode, Tim Hein shares his story of surviving childhood...
Good Girls, Bad Books: Erotica in Young Adult Fiction?, #579
Juli and her guests explore the infiltration of erotica and LGBTQ themes into young adult fiction. From board books to bestselling novels, today’s lit...
What Your Husband Wishes You Knew About Sex, #126
Have you ever wanted to get inside the mind of your man–just for a day? Now’s your chance! Juli and Hannah sit down with pastor and author Chip Ingram...
From Head to Heart: Why Love Changes Everything, #578
If loving God (or others) has felt hard or risky, this episode is for you. Join Juli and Hannah to discover why surrendering to love is not weakness—i...
Single, Married, or Searching: What Are We Really Longing For?, #577
In a culture that elevates marriage, sex, and romance as the ultimate goals, many of us are left feeling unfulfilled or sidelined. Have we unknowingly...
Q&A with Jackie Hill Perry and Laurence Koo, #576
Jackie Hill Perry and Laurence Koo tackle some of the most pressing questions surrounding faith, sexuality, and discipleship. No small talk here—just...
How Knowing Jesus Makes You Whole, Not Perfect, #575
We’re moving from shame-based “sexual purity” to sexual integrity—the day-by-day journey of aligning your sexual choices with God’s truth. Whether you...
Is God Outdated? Surrendering the Story You Believe About Sex, #574
If you’ve ever wrestled with how to reconcile your faith with your sexuality, or how God’s design seems outdated (or even unloving), this is an episod...
How To Trust God With the Hardest Parts of Your Story, #573
You believe God loves you—but you're afraid to trust Him with your most painful places.
In this conversation, discover why surrender is one of t...
Surrendered Sexuality: Why God Wants More Than Just Your Behavior, #572
What if God asks you to surrender not because of what He wants to take from you, but because of what He wants to give? Grab your Java and listen in as...
4 Identity Traps That Are Keeping You Stuck, #571
Discover why finding your identity in Christ isn't about changing your behavior—it's about knowing Jesus, and letting Him redefine who you are. In thi...
The #1 Thing That Defines You (And It's Not What You Think), #570
What’s the most important thing about you? Get ready—this episode will challenge what you've always believed about yourself. Listen in as Juli shares...
God's Design for Sexuality: Teaching Kids to Stand Firm & Love Big, #569
Want to raise faithful and loving kids in an LGBT-affirming world? This episode is one you can’t afford to skip. You don’t have to choose between trut...
Unpacking Emotional Baggage: How to Get to the Root of Conflict in Marriage with Dr. Dan Allender, #568
Turns out, the stuff we haven’t dealt with from childhood shows up ... right in the middle of our relationships. Sit down with Juli and Dr. Dan Allend...
3 Myths We Believe About "Being One" In Marriage, #567
We spend a lot of our marriages thinking that “becoming one” means, "You'll become more like me. And once you become more like me, then we'll become o...
AI & Porn: The Attachment Crisis No One Sees Coming, #566
AI is changing the game when it comes to pornography—and it’s becoming more addictive and more dehumanizing than ever. This episode explores the impac...
How to (Really) Love Your Neighbor with Jada Edwards, Ep. #565
The relationships you struggle with the most? This episode is for those. Juli sits down with Bible teacher Jada Edwards to share stories about the way...
#564 Why People Turn to Porn and How to Break the Cycle
Sadly, wrestling with pornography addiction is increasingly commonplace. But how do people find pornography? And why do they keep going back to it?
#563 Practical Advice for Talking to Kids About Sex and Culture
Navigating the teenage years has never been easy, whether you’re the parent or the child. So as parents, how can you help your teenager or pre-teen ha...
#562 The Best Way to Stop Fighting in Your Marriage
James 4:1 so famously writes, “What causes quarrels and what causes fights among you?”
It’s not surprising that marriage is a hotbed for conflic...
#561 Help for Christian Wives Who Don’t Like Sex
We’ve talked about the fact that many women struggle to ‘flip the switch’ and enjoy married sex, and we’ve talked about what might contribute to that....
#560 Can Biblical Churches be LGBTQ-friendly?
There are so many challenges that come with leading a church well, especially when it comes to how to express their stance on Biblical sexuality. Many...
#559 What if Male Sexuality Is More Complex Than We Think?
Historically, inside and outside the church, male sexuality has been talked about as a purely orgasm-driven experience.
But is it possible we ha...
#558 Christians Need To Change The Way They Talk About Married Sex
As we work to change the purity narrative and undo many of its effects, we have to look at some of the continued harm it does to marriages. There’s st...
#557 Understanding The Harm of Purity Culture and How to Move Forward
One of the biggest criticisms of purity culture is the way it reduced sexuality to a list of do’s and don’ts, but there are lots of other reasons mill...
#556 Why We Can't Ignore What Offends Us About Jesus
If questions about sex lead to questions about God, it’s important that we know and follow Jesus as He really is.
Rick Lawrence, author of “Edit...
#555 Can You Have A Great Marriage Without Sex? Juli Answers Your Questions
In this special Q&A episode, Juli answers your questions about sex and marriage. You’ll hear answers to questions like, why did God make us sexual whe...
#554 Sex and the Female Body: How to Swap Shame For Celebration
How can women overcome fear and shame around their bodies and embrace the beauty of God’s design for sex?
Whether from purity culture, other mes...
#553 Divorce and Separation: How to Know What to Do
When a marriage is in crisis, it can be hard to know what the next step should be. Is divorce the only option? Are there other steps available that co...
#552 When You Want Sex More Than Your Husband Does
It’s reported that 20-30% of marriages have a higher-desire wife and lower-desire husband.
This means that while many women may wish their husba...
#551 How Keeping Secrets Keeps Us in Shame
What secret are you keeping?
Many of us keep secrets to protect ourselves. But secrets also hide us from others. They can prevent us from being...
#550 What to Do When Sex is Painful
Sexual pain makes sex challenging, stressful, and a source of tension rather than a source of pleasure. Sadly, it’s a very present reality for many co...
#549 What the Latest Research Shows About Porn
How many men and women consume porn on a regular basis?
How common is porn use within the church?
How is porn affecting us?
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