Heart of Dating
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Heart of Dating
The purpose of this podcast, Heart of Dating, is to unmask the ever-so-ambiguous world of dating in the Christian world. While there are resources spread out over the years, there are not many centralized areas where Christians can access dating advice, help, and guidance easily and in a fashion tha...
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S16 Ep278: Equally Yoked vs Missionary Dating - Addison & Juli Bevere
Today we’re diving deep into what it means to be equally yoked as Addison and Julie Bevere join Kait and JJ to unpack spiritual compatibility, mission...

Christian Bachelor, Ghosting & HODC 2026 Scoop
Our Christian Bachelor sat down for three 5-minute dates… and had to choose who to continue with. 🌹 Meanwhile, Kait & JJ dove into your top questions...

S16 Ep277: Are Your Preferences Keeping You Single? Learning to Compromise Without Losing Yourself
Today we're diving into the realities of compromise in relationships as Kait and JJ unpack why holding too tightly to our preferences—like location, r...

S16 Ep276: What if we're not compatible? with Jamal Miller
Today we’re diving deep with Jamal Miller as he unpacks the true difference between compatibility and suitability in Christian dating, challenging us...

S16 Ep275: The 7 Core Needs That Sabotage or Save Your Relationships with Mike Foster
Today, Mike Foster joins Kait and JJ to unpack the seven primal questions driving our core needs, how childhood imprints impact our dating lives, and...

S16 Ep274: Arousal, Desire & Lust: The Sex Talk You Never Got
Today, Sam Joelman joins Kait and JJ for a candid and healing conversation about arousal, sexual ethics, and navigating boundaries in Christian dating...

S16 Ep273: Pacing and Boundaries: How Fast is Too Fast?
Today we’re kicking off Season 16 with Pastor Stephen Chandler, who’s giving us the real talk on dating timelines, pacing relationships, and building...

The Dating Advice You ACTUALLY Need | Patreon Aug 25
Confused by conflicting dating advice? 😅 Kait and JJ reveal why your dating personality type changes everything and the kind of advice that will fina...

S16 Trailer: Relationship Goals
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MINISERIES: | Can High Standards Hurt Your Dating Life? The Intentional Romantic | Dating Personality Types
Today we’re diving into the world of dating personalities as Kait and JJ unpack what it means to be the “intentional romantic”—aka the walking green f...

MINISERIES: Situationship Specialist? The Wanderer’s Fear of Choosing | Dating Personality Types
Today we’re exploring the Wanderer dating personality as Kait and JJ reveal why commitment is tough for them, how FOBO shows up, and what it means to...

MINISERIES: God Didn’t Call You to Settle | Dating Personality Types
Today we’re exploring the Safety Seeker dating personality as Kait and JJ unpack its challenges and strengths—and encourage Safety Seekers to raise t...

MINISERIES: How to Date as an Overthinker | Dating Personality Types
Today we’re unpacking the “Overthinker” dating personality with Kait and JJ, who offer wisdom, practical tips, and encouragement for anyone caught in...

MINISERIES: Falling Fast, Feeling Hard: The Hopeless Romantic Trap | Dating Personality Types
Today we’re unpacking the Hopeless Romantic dating personality type as JJ explores the thrills, pitfalls, and wisdom needed for those who love big and...

MINISERIES: Dating Feels Draining? You Might Be a Lone Wolf | Dating Personality Types
Today, we’re diving deep into the "Lone Wolf" dating personality, unpacking its avoidant attachment style, common dating pitfalls, and why healing hap...

What's Wrong With Me? I'm a Catch!
Have you ever wondered if there's something wrong with you when it comes to dating? This episode of Heart of Dating explores possible blind spots that...

S15.5 Ep272: Age Gaps, Awkward Dates, and a Whole Lot of ‘Wait…What?’ | Ben & Ali Creech
Today on Heart of Dating, Ben and Ali Creech open up about their 11-year age gap, overcoming doubts and awkward dates, and how shared spiritual and em...

S15.5 Ep271: Am I Too Broken to Be Loved? Stuck in Self-Sabotage and Shame | Chris Cook
Today’s episode features Chris Cook opening up about grief, rejection, and his journey with chronic illness, sharing how God brought redemption, heali...

Healing, Hope, and a Husband: How to Stop Waiting and Start Dating
Today we’re celebrating a heartwarming Heart of Dating love story as Megan and Bryan share their journeys through healing, self-discovery, and faith—p...

S15.5 Ep270: Don’t Rush to the Altar: Why Discernment Matters More Than Chemistry with Miah Huber
Today, Kait and Miah Huber dive into Miah’s powerful story of overcoming abuse in a Christian marriage and finding hope, healing, and purpose through...

S15.5 Ep 269: Divorced & Dating as a Single Dad & Pastor | Kenneth Lock
Today we’re joined by Kenneth Locke as he shares his powerful journey through divorce, healing, and rediscovering love and purpose as a single pastor...

S15.5 Ep 268: Brutality & Beauty of Singleness | Annie F. Downs Breaks Her Silence
Today Annie F. Downs joins us, and gets real about her singleness journey, her honest struggle, lessons with ghosting, and reminds us that both single...

S15.5 Ep 267: Sexting, Virginity, and the Sin We Hide: JJ Gets Honest About His Past
Today JJ gets real as Kait puts him in the hot seat—he shares his testimony of dating, struggling with porn, learning boundaries, and what it took to...

Stuck in the FRIEND ZONE?! and HOW to get out of it! (Patreon April 2025)
Today we have a bonus episode for you about friendzoning. How to know you're in the friend zone and how to get out of the friend zone!
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S15.5 Ep 266: Healing Body Image & a Broken Engagement with Nicoletta Bradley
Today we’re going deep with Nicoletta Bradley as she shares her transformative journey of healing from body image struggles and a broken engagement!

S15.5 Ep265: Disappointed, Waiting, Husbandless & God’s Faithfulness
Meki’s story is one of wrestling with disappointment, delayed dreams, and a relationship that didn’t check the usual spiritual boxes. She shares how G...

S15 Ep264: First Date Hottest Takes, Green Flags and Tips with Christie Kederian
Today we have Dr. Christie Kederian here to break down the essentials of first dates, share surprising research, and offer practical tips.

S15 Ep263: Dating in Church Community without Ruining Everything with Neiman Davis
Today we’re joined by Neiman Davis and diving deep into dating within church communities while sharing insights from his role at The Belonging Co!

S15 Ep262: Just friends or more? The Truth About Friendationships with Daniel MacLeod
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S15 Ep261: Surviving a Breakup as the BreakupER and BreakupEE 💔with Ben Stuart
Today we have Ben Stuart, who shares invaluable insights into the art of breaking up and the importance of wise counsel in dating!
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S15 Ep260: Where to Meet Quality Christian Singles and Debunking EXCUSES❌
Today Kait and JJ address the scarcity mindset in dating, emphasizing the importance of actively seeking a godly partner.
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BONUS: Navigating Online Dating🔎Curiosity, Connections & Authenticity
Today Kait and JJ give us their tips on speed dating, and the importance of curiosity in forming genuine connections. Dive into how Christians are re...

S15 Ep259: The List👀 Challenging Fast Engagements🚨 & Godly Discernment - Christian & Arden Bevere
Today we have Arden and Christian Bevere, who share their journey from meeting to marrying in under a year. They discuss their intentional approach to...

S15 Ep 258: Why You're Stuck in Your Head (And How to Fix It) with Joy and Mathieu Rossignol
Today we're diving into the world of dating with Joy and Matthieu, and they're sharing insights on dealing with anxiety and overthinking in the early...

S15 Ep257: The Spark & Butterflies EXPOSED - Why That Triggers People | Healthy Type & Attraction
Today we’re diving deep into attraction and 'types.’ Join us as they challenge conventional views on physical attraction and how societal and personal...

BONUS: Long Distance, Big Risks, and The One That Was Worth It
Today Kait and JJ have guests, Amber and Randward on to talk about how they met at the Heart of Dating Conference, navigated long distance, and are no...

S15 Ep256: Love After Heartbreak, Set-Ups, and How God's Hand is in the Details with Elyse & Tim Mahan
Today we're diving into the heartwarming journey of Elyse and Tim as they share their inspiring story. Join us to hear about the challenges of dating...

S15 Ep255: How fast is too fast? Stages of Dating and Redefining SUCCESS
Today Kait and JJ break down the stages of dating. They discuss avoiding pressure, reframing the concept of dating, and understanding godly dating ami...

S15 Ep254: Attachment Styles 101 with EXPERT Adam Lane Smith
Today we're exploring attachment styles with Adam Lane Smith. He breaks down secure, anxious, and avoidant attachments and their impact on our relatio...

S15 Ep253: Signs You’re Not Ready to Date (Yet).. and Signs That You ARE With Riley and Jack Kehoe
Today we’re diving into season 15 where Jack and Riley share their journeys with closed and open singleness, offering insights on personal growth, ful...